I See It, I Like It, I Want It, I Got It: 7 Things On My Wish List This March.
From a vintage Gucci coat and emerald jewelry, to my next weekend getaway.
No judgment okay?
In every relationship there comes a time when your true self shines through and some of the mystery fades away. Did I ‘forget’ to mention that I got a weekly at-home spray tan every Thursday during the first year of dating my now husband? Yes, I did. He surprised me one Thursday evening and found me rather exposed in just my shower cap mid spray.
I know we’re not at the year mark quite yet, but date seven is when the veil begins to lift and you realize I’m a lot more high maintenance, less low key. Shocking, I know. Therefore, in the spirit of openness, at the beginning of each month, I’ll share seven things I’m not ashamed to say I want, need, or would even donate an organ for if necessary. Strap in, because some are more ‘I see it, I like it, I want it, can’t buy it,’ but it’s good to have goals, right?
Full disclosure, there are technically more than seven things on this list thanks to my deep dive in to emerald jewelry, but seven things is what worked with my reference. You’re welcome.
1. Haus Labs Bio-Radiant Glassy Balm Highlighter Stick
Easing in with the first on our list, I actually bought three of the six highlighters when they launched on Monday. I had to do the research for our date after all. Assuming you read my post on pearlescent makeup, you know I’ve tried just about every glowy product on the market. Admittedly, I’m married to my Westman Atelier Highlighter Stick in the color Lit because it adds sheen without looking shimmery. However, I fell in love with the Haus Labs highlighters immediately. Both the Glassy Opal and Glassy Champagne Quartz sit on top of the skin, without disturbing makeup underneath, achieving a glassy iridescent glow. The balm texture is best applied with your fingers or a beauty blender, tapping on to the high points of the face, eyes and lips. I also bought the clear Pure Glass stick which I wouldn’t recommend unless you’re a pro makeup artist trying to do a wet look. There is no pigment and you could probably just use a lip balm to achieve the same effect.
2. Emerald Jewelry

If you want an inside look at my brain on jewelry, I think about Angelina Jolie at the 2009 Oscars in her 115 carat Lorraine Schwartz Colombian emerald earrings at least twice a week. Something must be in the air—I’ve received about five texts in the past few days from friends about emerald jewelry. As your resident GIA Applied Jewelry Professional let me nerd out for a moment and give you a helpful tip on emeralds. Emeralds are considered to be a ‘soft’ stone meaning they can scratch and break more easily than diamonds. Therefore, with emerald stones over a certain carat weight you see a lot of earrings and necklaces instead of rings and bracelets. If you decide to get a ring or a bracelet, make sure the stone is protected by a substantial setting, like this vintage emerald ring, or set in pavé, like the Lucy Delius signet ring. Lucky for you, I’ve put together a selection of emerald jewelry that I’d love to adorn myself with if I’m ever that lucky. You could go all in with Shay’s Emerald Pendant Necklace or opt for more subtle every day earrings like Spinelli Kilcollin’s Zahra Earrings. See, I never said I didn’t like the brand I just was a little over the rings. Calm down.
3. Yaitte x Moda Operandi Pajama Set
You know I love a pajama set that works both in and out of the bedroom. March is the perfect time to fantasize about warmer days. I’ve pictured myself wearing these Yaitte pajamas on my Summer holiday mixing and matching the shirt and boxer shorts as I sip my ice cold Vermentino. How cute is the little dust bag as well?
4. Chic Dogs Coffee Table Book By ASSOULINE
This really should be called my favorite things because we’ve already covered jewelry, pajamas, makeup highlighters and now dogs. I need Assouline’s Chic Dogs book for my coffee table purely so I can look at imagery of cute dogs throughout history, culture and fashion. Also if you happen to be in New York, Palm Beach, Paris or London this weekend my friend told me about the launch event that includes a portrait of you and your dog with the purchase of the book. To be honest, she knows the only way I’ll socialize these days is with my puppy, Sloane. See you at The Plaza! (You can follow Sloane on Instagram if you’re curious.)
5. Sangre De Fruta Garden Of Earthly Delights Botanical Hand Wash
My friend texted me the other day and asked for suggestions for hand soaps other than the obvious Aesop, Byredo, Loewe and Diptyque. I’m not saying I don’t love the more obvious options but for an even more unique recommendation I’m lusting over Sangre De Fruta’s Garden Of Earthly Delights Botanical Hand Wash. It's 100% organic, refillable, and formulated with shea butter to nourish while cleansing the hands with rosemary extract. I also want the matching hand lotion. The scent of cedar, sandalwood and bergamot doesn’t overpower and perfect for every day. I understand having a luxurious hand soap isn’t a priority for most people but our relationship is based on no judgement! Sometimes an upgrade to the most basic of items can feel like such a treat. Spring is the perfect time for dinner parties and when your guests wash their hands, this is sure to be a conversation starter. Think of it as jewelry for your bathroom or kitchen.
6. Vintage Tom Ford For Gucci Fall/Winter 1999 Leather Coat
On the heels of Haider Ackermann’s Tom Ford FW25 debut on Wednesday, I thought let’s take a trip down memory lane. I’m also in the mood for a lighter coat now the temperatures are slightly rising. The most recent TF collection was full of leather in black and white and reminded me of this Tom Ford for Gucci coat that was seen in white on the FW99 runway. A lot of you agree with the sentiment that girls don’t want flowers, we want Tom Ford back at Gucci. We may never get our wish, but at least we still have (overpriced) vintage to dream about.
7. The Henson, Catskills
I know we’re not in the ‘going away together’ stage of dating yet, but hear me out. If you’re in the mood for a mini-break outside of New York, I’d try The Henson. Spring getaways are my favorite, and this new 16-room boutique hotel in the Catskills is beautifully designed and rumored to have exceptional food. Don’t worry I’ve done my research and the inn has a fine dining restaurant run by acclaimed chefs. I can’t go anywhere where the food is just mid. I’m hoping it doesn’t get overrun so if you do go, don’t tell anyone. My favorite place closer to the city has gone up in price so I’d rather save the funds for items one through six above. Look at me budgeting! (Remind me to send this to my husband.)
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I’m not ashamed to ask for what I need in this relationship! I'd also love for you to share in the comments if there's anything on your wishlist this month. It’s important to communicate after all.
See you next Friday. Don’t miss me too much!
XO XO
Grace
Would love to know how the Haus Labs highlighter compares to WA’s ‘Lit’!
Legit love this one! The emerald guide is beyond!